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  • 看到一个小女孩
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    2009-06-09 1:44 / 标准博客 / 会员可以看
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    我听到外面一阵嘈杂。一个女人在咆哮,像是出于愤怒。起初我听不清,但当我走到外面无意中闯入那个场景,这些言语就清晰可闻。“你怎样完成这个句子?”这位女士质问她困惑的孩子。这个女孩是她妈妈的映射,在妈妈焦灼的质问中迷失了,像是一头被俘获的小鹿。“如果你打算出去玩,你要讲'我出去玩'还是'你出去玩?”这位母亲现在为了强调开始挥舞双臂。“答案是"I play outside!’"这些话对这小孩子来说还没产生什么意义,但是对我来说却是饱含着爱与情感。它并不是在简单呈现一个母亲想要孩子学习功课的愿望落空,而坐在自家仓库外对着人行道宣泄愤怒。这个迷失的孩子专注的听着妈妈对于更好的未来,更好的人生,更好的反馈的一种恳求。我想这个孩子稍后是否会记得同妈妈一起的这一幕。或者这个情景是否会渐渐褪色直至与其他关于母亲的记忆融为一体。她是否会明白妈妈的话并不仅仅作用于她的功课,更是对一个目睹了这一幕的旁观者产生了极为深远的意义。她会懂得她的妈妈远比那些怪责的言语所能表达的还要爱她,那些言语随着时间的流逝都会淡化,但是其中的寓意却会保留下来。

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  • Hecate
    留言於2009-10-05 17:10 [举报]
    爱予于行动~~
  • clairelee83
    留言於2009-09-21 2:43 [举报]
    gosh.. i like this blog entry... thanks for the sharing.. but it makes me want to cry.. sometimes not all child will become whom the mother wants her to become.. how sad that is when we fail to make them proud of us...
    mummy is the best... yet because of that i want to cry..
  • showraymon
    留言於2009-08-21 22:00 [举报]
    妈妈说的话要记得,因为那是注入所有感情的话语。。。。。。
  • a314811612
    留言於2009-07-29 9:06 [举报]
    I saw a sentimental man .
  • anishma
    留言於2009-06-13 22:34 [举报]
    the feeling of the mother is like
    WINTER SUN MELTING THE SHADOW OF ICE
  • jjwong
    留言於2009-06-13 18:43 [举报]
    I understand how the mother felt.  I do that everytime when my kids start talking in English at the dinner table.  I get very frustrated when they talk to me in English. Just want them to speak Cantonese at home and it seems like a task they can never achieve.
  • levana29
    留言於2009-06-10 17:51 [举报]
    like a warm story about the maternal love
  • wencai
    留言於2009-06-10 15:32 [举报]
    well, all of us as adults we know this is life... at somepoint of time, we were all once young... and helpless and with less understanding... how often my father would say to me "you are still young, and lack of experience..."  at that time, being young, " ah what you said, i study more than you, my knoweldge is more than you... ", not knowing how many years later with much more experiences and painful experiences and learning things thro the hard way... ya i really lack of experiences...
    how many of us realise that... words of old man... ha... i am better than you...
    but have you realise that thro studies and education, we are all learning theories and histroy and all the theories and histroy  and case studies are all from old man,  well at least they are from the past, that make them old...
    uhm... no wonder there is this chinese  saying " if you don't listen to an old man saying, you will lose out in the near future" (bu ting lao ren yen, chi kui zai yen qian)
    lol...
    everyday is a good day!
  • Glorificus
    留言於2009-06-10 1:36 [举报]
    I think you've got it laid out very well what it means to be a parent, a child, and a bystander ;)
  • xskydreamers
    留言於2009-06-09 23:16 [举报]
    most of the time.. realizations will only hit home when they lost the devotion of people who cared about their well-being. I certainly hope the little girl or any blessed child see the light earlier and learn to cherish.
  • janechu
     
    留言於2009-06-09 14:02 [举报]
    yea... this is very true...
  • dantran
     
    留言於2009-06-09 13:07 [举报]
    I'm going to venture out a guess and say you were sitting on top of a volcano while witnessing this ruckus.
  • RavenMoon
    留言於2009-06-09 12:59 [举报]
    Nice thoughts for sure... it definitely does take some time to realize that when your parents were stern with you, it was only because they wanted the best for you.. reminds me of my father and i  :)
  • jaymee
    留言於2009-06-09 11:21 [举报]
    The kid will only the mother making a fuss over a small word. It'll dawn upon her when she grows older. She'll get it. And so will the others. ;)
  • musicnote
    留言於2009-06-09 9:32 [举报]
    interesting thoughts
  • akirakoieyama
    艺术家空间 
    留言於2009-06-09 8:30 [举报]
    I can remember kind of momemt with my family and I think
    Nothing worth more than a Mothers Love !!!
  • mariejost
    艺术家空间 
    留言於2009-06-09 4:16 [举报]
    Great piece of writing.  I hope you will post more frequently.  Your blogs are often quite thought provoking.
  • LingTse
    艺术家空间 
    留言於2009-06-09 3:43 [举报]
    a child could never understand!
  • peachey
    留言於2009-06-09 2:26 [举报]
    My girls will remember a shrill mom. lol. Someday, when they're older I think they'll understand where that was coming from.
  • JaysonLi
    艺术家空间 
    留言於2009-06-09 2:01 [举报]
    Very true, very true. There are moments we all have when we are children that we wish to forget but which as we grow older and mature we remember and cherish.
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